In celebration of Mother’s Day, I thought I’d write a short post on what I learned from my mother that has enabled me to be successful in life. And by successful I mean happy, healthy, a great job and able to enjoy life!
First, my mother raised my brother, sister and me by herself. My grandparents (her parents) were nearby and helped. My father was pretty much out of the picture and then once they divorced, we barely saw him and then never heard from him again. It was a struggle growing up, but frankly more so for my mother than us. We never wanted for much. We didn’t go on vacation but never thought about it and didn’t miss it. We were happy! Most important to my mother was that we all went to college – and we did – she saw to that. She wanted it to be better for us than it was for her. I bet you all could say pretty much the same thing about your own mothers!
Here is what I learned from my mother:
- Stick up for yourself and what you believe in.
- Be good to others.
- Be kind to animals.
- Treat others with respect – no one is better than someone else.
- Share what you have with others.
- Look after your brother and sister – you only have each other.
- You can do much more than you think you can.
- Be honest.
- Learn something new every day.
- Pay attention to what is going on around you.
- Try to make the world a better place.
The list could go on and on!
This blog post is for my mother, Fay. A woman I have always looked up to and admired; an intelligent, caring woman who has gone above and beyond for me, my sister and brother. I learn something from her every day!
Gina,
It is my honor too. This is your first post I am publishing and what a better thing than this.
Regards,
Suprio
Hello Suprio,
Thank you for your comment. You most certainly may republish the post on your blog – what an honor – thank you. My mother may never have said out loud she loved us regularly, but I can tell you we ALWAYS knew that she did! We are who we are today because of her. When I need strength – I can always look to my mother for it.
Thanks again for your comment and for republishing this post on your blog.
Best regards,
Gina
Gina,
Thanks for reminding us to remember our mothers wherever and whoever we are. It makes me feel so good to read what you have written about your mom. And she loving her children but never really having said it when they were growing up as it was never told to her but she always knew her mom and dad cared for her.
I would like to publish this on my blog if you say yes.
Thanks and regards,
Suprio
Jamie,
I agree with your comment… sometimes we are so wrapped up in work and other busy activities that we need to step back and take inventory about what is REALLY important.
Charlotte
Hi Jamie,
Thanks for the comment. Very interesting about how you could try to be more intentional about motherhood and lessons your children learn. I ponder how that might look. An interesting topic I’d like to discuss with my sister who has a soon-to-be 2 year old, Jack.
Have a great weekend!
Best,
Gina
Gina,
Your post has got me thinking (intentionally so) about what my three sons who are age 5, 8 and 9 will take away as their learnings from me. Makes me think I should be more intentional about motherhood and lessons taught.
I have just read your new blog and I must say it brought tears to my eyes. Sometimes you wonder just how well you did as a young mother and I guess its nice to know that you did well.
I love my children and never really said it when they were growing up probably because it was never said to me but I alway knew my mom and dad cared by their actions.
I will always cherish my daughter, Gina’s wonderful Mother’s Day celebration and surprising picture.
Love Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow Mom
Hello Charlotte,
Thanks much for your comment and for reading!
Best,
Gina
Gina,
This is wonderful! Thank you for reminding us to appreciate our mothers.
Charlotte